3 Different Ways To Work With Deities

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Three ways to work with a deity

Curious about working with deities but not sure where to start? You’re in luck! Today, we’re breaking down three different approaches to connecting with these celestial beings.

And if you’re looking for a step-by-step guide to dive deeper, grab our free guide: 10 Ways to Work with Deities—it’s packed with practical tips to help you connect more easily!

Whether you’re new to this or looking to deepen your practice, there’s a method here for you. Let’s dive into the big topic of deity work!

3. Worship

Worship is probably the most traditional way to connect with a deity. This method involves setting up an altar, making offerings, and performing rituals to honor the deity.

Worship is about building a relationship based on respect and reverence. Here’s how you can start:

  • Altar Setup: Create a sacred space dedicated to the deity with items like statues, candles, and symbols associated with them.
  • Offerings: Regularly give offerings such as food, flowers, incense, or any items the deity favors.
  • Rituals: Perform rituals, prayers, or chants to show your devotion and gratitude.

Worship allows you to develop a deep, respectful relationship with the deity. By regularly honoring them, you create a bond that can bring comfort and guidance. It’s definitely the tool to create a long-term relationship.

Through worship, you invite the deity’s blessings and protection into your life. This can manifest in various ways, such as improved well-being, luck, or spiritual growth. It’s kind of a slower, gentler manifestation, and is usually positive, though you won’t see much inner change.

2. Petitioning

Petitioning is all about asking the deity for help or favors. This method is more direct and practical. If you need assistance with something specific, here’s how you can petition a deity:

  • Identify Your Need: Clearly understand what you need help with.
  • Choose the Right Deity: Pick a deity whose domain aligns with your need (e.g., Aphrodite for love, Hermes for travel).
  • Prepare Your Request: Write down your petition and prepare an offering that resonates with the deity.
  • Ritual: During a quiet moment, present your petition and offering, and speak your request out loud.

Traditionally, you leave an offering, though this isn’t always necessary. If you’re still confused, I recommend checking out our Member’s Corner where I go over more details about deity work.

Petitioning can be powerful for immediate needs or specific requests, but it’s important to approach with respect and sincerity.

1. In-Depth Initiations

For those looking to go deeper, in-depth initiations are the way to go. This method isn’t just about connecting with a deity for fun—it’s about bringing their energy into your life and forcing real, tangible change. Initiations are intense and transformative, making them ideal for serious inner work.

When you initiate into a deity’s current, their energy starts to influence your outward life. This means you’ll see changes, both subtle and dramatic, in how you think, feel, and interact with the world.

Initiations are all about diving deep into your unconscious mind and making significant changes. It’s about transforming the landscape of your inner self to align more closely with the deity you’re working with.

Through initiations, you don’t just learn about a deity—you begin to understand and embody their archetype. You become like them.

One of the coolest things about initiations is that they help you tap into the aspects of the deity that are already within you. For example, if you’re working with Lilith, you might find yourself confronting and embracing taboos hidden deep within your mind, clearing away self-consciousness, and discovering your true feminine power.

Example: Initiating with Lilith

Let’s say you’re initiating into Lilith’s current. You might start by researching her myths and symbols, then perform a series of rituals designed to connect deeply with her energy. Over time, you might notice that you’re more comfortable embracing your desires, breaking free from societal norms, and standing in your own power. This isn’t just a theoretical exercise—it’s about real-world change.

If you want to learn more about initiatory deity work, head to the Member’s Corner. There, you’ll find a deity of the week library complete with 35+ deities and including symbols/associations, lore, practical magic, gnosis, and more.