Venus aspects to the Nodes often indicate feelings of fate when you first meet. These are strong love connections and are aspects that create instant attraction. This type of attraction is very Venusian in that it’s soft, alluring, happy, and pretty.
However, these aren’t necessarily lasting aspects. They’re often based on past life connections, but they don’t denote future connections in the same strong way.
Instead, you will need to look to other aspects in the chart to see whether there is long-term relationship potential.
Sometimes, these aspects can make you feel stuck in the past. If you’re able to push for growth together then there is a lot of potential for these relationships to work.
Venus Conjunct North Node Synastry (Opposition South Node)
The Venus conjunct North Node synastry aspect is the same as Venus opposition South Node in synastry. If you have one of these aspects with your partner, you’ll have the other as well.
With this Venus conjunct North Node synastry aspect, you may feel like your meeting is fated. You recognize each other the second you spot each other.
At first, this relationship feels perfect, because it’s as though you’re supposed to be together. There is a strong energetic pull to each other.
You feel a strong desire to impress each other with the Venus conjunct North Node synastry aspect. Your first meeting just feels really important!
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Usually, the North Node person admires the more graceful, beautiful, attractive qualities of the Venus person. These qualities can be real, but they can also be more external or surface level qualities such as their social standing, appearance, or mannerisms.
The Venus person is drawn to the emotional maturity and inner strength of the North Node person, at least how they perceive that. They will often sense certain qualities in the North Node person, but they won’t know if these values are accurate until they know them on a deeper level.
The North Node person will feel like the Venus person is the way to achieve their soul’s purpose. After all, this person is trying to learn about the qualities of their North Node, and at face value, the Venus person shows them all of these qualities.
However, with the Venus conjunct North Node synastry aspect, you may feel like something is standing in the way of your relationship working out over the long haul. The relationship needs very strong other aspects in order to continue.
The Venus conjunct North Node synastry aspect can often indicate a fling. The initial attraction is strong between both of you, but it will fade over time because the attraction is based on appearances instead of truths.
The Venus person tends to have more superficial qualities than the North Node person realized. Even though these qualities reflect the North Node, Venus isn’t a sustainable planet and Venusian qualities are typically quite surface level.
After the initial attraction is over, the North Node person might realize that their qualities don’t quite line up. The Venus person can feel like their partner is too intense or deep, or that they’re simply on separate pages.
If you have the Venus conjunct North Node synastry aspect and want to make your relationship work, you need to develop a deeper relationship based on other qualities.
Don’t spend time obsessing over the initial attraction. Find other things that keep you together and work on developing those qualities.
The Venus conjunct North Node synastry relationship can certainly work, but this aspect alone isn’t indicative of a long-term partnership. Look to other aspects in the chart to determine the nature of the deeper relationship.
Many people find this aspect in their synastry charts of people who they simply had flings with. This usually indicates that the meeting happened to set the stage for a future meeting and longer-term relationship in a future lifetime.
Venus Trine North Node Synastry
With the Venus trine North Node synastry aspect, you probably felt an instant attraction and felt that your meeting was fated or meant to be.
This is an easy flow of energy here. Sometimes, the Venus trine North Node synastry aspect is so simple and easy that you don’t even notice it.
The Venus trine North Node synastry aspect indicates that you have mutual attraction and early love in the relationship. You simply feel good being around each other.
When you first meet, the North Node person sees likeminded qualities in the Venus individual. They see the outer qualities that they want in their North Node, so they sense that this relationship could bring them something deeper.
Meanwhile, the Venus person is attracted to the deeper qualities in the North Node person, though they may not be able to verbally explain this energy.
The Venus person can learn to trust the North Node person as they seem them grow into the sign. However, if they don’t recognize that the North Node person is actively growing, then the Venus person might struggle to feel harmony in the relationship.
The North Node person may feel opened to a world of possibilities with the Venus person. This is especially true for a male North Node person with a Venus woman, because her femininity changes his outlook on a lot of the values of the North Node sign.
However, the Venus trine North Node synastry aspect isn’t as intense as the conjunction. It’s a subtle energy that simply feels nice.
You’ve most likely had past experiences, in past lives, as lovers or partners. This is why you have an instant attraction and feel loving with very little knowledge of each other. Your souls recognize each other immediately.
This Venus trine North Node synastry aspect tends to be karmic. Your relationship will feel like you’re picking up where you left off.
This doesn’t necessarily mean that your relationship is built to last. Many karmic relationships are meant to be short-lived while others are for a lifetime. Look to other aspects in the chart to learn more about your relationship.
The most important thing with the Venus trine North Node synastry aspect is that you work to motivate each other at all times. This relationship can feel easy, but it’s important that you don’t become complacent.
Ultimately, you have a lot to teach each other!
Venus Sextile North Node Synastry
If you have the Venus sextile North Node synastry aspect, your relationship was probably romantic from the very beginning.
You naturally enjoyed being around each other and felt pleasure in the presence of the other person.
The North Node person was probably interested in the Venus person because of their appearance, mannerisms, social status, money, etc., while the Venus person was interested in the North Node person because of the deeper, intense vibes that they gave off.
The Venus person tends to look for something deeper in the North Node person. They feel like they can change their life. Meanwhile, the North Node person sees a beautiful, pleasant life with the Venus person, and they want that.
With the Venus sextile North Node synastry aspect, you see very pleasant aspects of each other at first. This doesn’t mean that your relationship will necessarily work; this aspect is simply indicative of the attraction for the first two months.
Eventually, the North Node person can come to feel that the Venus person only has these fun and beautiful qualities on a superficial level, while the Venus person can get tired of the depth that the North Node person desires.
This relationship can work if there are other aspects in the chart that denote a strong connection. The Venus sextile North Node synastry aspect isn’t necessarily a yes or a no.
It’s important that you don’t get caught up in these initial happy feelings. Look for deeper connections if you truly want this relationship to work over the long haul.
Venus Opposition North Node Synastry (Conjunct South Node)
The Venus opposition North Node synastry aspect is the same thing as Venus conjunct South Node in synastry. If you have one aspect, you also have the other, because the Nodes are always opposite.
You probably have a feeling of instant attraction. At first, you may also have a strong need to be with the other person quite often.
When you first meet someone who you have the Venus conjunct South Node synastry aspect, you might feel as though you already know each other. The energy is familiar.
This aspect indicates a relationship in a past life. Although you weren’t necessarily married, this relationship was certainly romantic.
Because of this, you both feel very loved and attracted initially with the Venus conjunct South Node synastry aspect.
Unlike the North node aspects, Venus conjunct South Node in synastry is more indicative of a long-term relationship, mainly because you’re falling right back into your relationship from a past life.
However, the Venus person might reinforce the past behavior of the Nodal person. Being around the Venus person causes them to fall deeper into their karmic baggage, so it’s hard for them to progress towards their North Node.
The Nodal person feels a fated quality to the relationship at first, but over time, they may start to feel like they’re held back from really progressing. The relationship is comfortable but also start to feel wrong because it’s based on the old them.
The South Node is a very challenging point. If you’re the Nodal person, you are trying to push past your tendency to depend on others and to learn how to find happiness within yourself.
When you enter into a relationship based on the South Node, you can feel like you’re in the relationship for optics, not based on an authentic connection.
With the Venus conjunct South Node synastry aspect, you may both feel like you outgrow the relationship at some point. The Venus person can start to feel like they’re putting in too much effort, too, because the Nodal person is super focused on moving towards something else.
This aspect can even be considered that of star-crossed lovers. You may want to be together but feel like something keeps you apart.
If you’re able to grow together with this Venus conjunct South Node synastry aspect, then it can certainly work. The Venus person must learn how to encourage the North Node person in their growth.
Venus Square North Node/South Node Synastry
The Venus square North Node synastry aspect means that you also have the Venus square South Node aspect in synastry. If one person’s Venus squares the other’s nodes, then it squares both of the axises.
There is a strong initial attraction with this aspect, even if it isn’t acted on. However, it isn’t as easy as the other aspects. There’s a bit more tension here that creates an energetic pull.
You may have differences between your goals in a relationship. The Venus person tends to want to live in the moment and focus on their pleasure, while the North Node person might be more serious or focused on long-term goals.
The Venus square North Node synastry aspect means that there are clashes between what you desire for your future. Although the attraction is strong, these differences can create issues down the line.
At some points, you may feel like you have outgrown the relationship or that the other person is holding you back. This can even be the initial feeling in some ways. You’re certainly attracted to each other, but something about the relationship can feel wrong or scary, too.
The Venus square North Node synastry aspect often indicates a past life romantic wound that must be healed between the two of you. In a past life, you had a relationship that ended badly, so that energy carries over into your relationship now.
However, this relationship can be healed if you desire. You simply must push through the charged energy to find what is beautiful in the other person.
You may see only the ugly or difficult parts of the relationship with the Venus square North Node synastry aspect. For the partnership to work, you need to look again and find beauty in the unexpected. There are many wonderful things about your partner that you only need to discover.
As partners, you can push each other to grow. In fact, you will probably change and learn new things just be being around each other.
The Venus square North Node synastry aspect can be very painful because it creates many misunderstandings. However, if you’re able to work through these issues, then you will grow as people and heal past life trauma together.
Venus Trine South Node Synastry
The Venus trine North Node synastry aspect creates an instant sense of recognition. You will feel as though you’re returning to someone you previously knew.
In a past life, you were lovers or had a romantic relationship at some sense. This makes you feel, at least at first, as though you can experience true love through this relationship.
You may fall back into your past selves automatically with Venus trine South Node in synastry. At first, this feels glamorous or exciting. You may get a sense of social status, financial security, or of romance through the looks and mannerisms of the other person.
However, the relationship may not last beyond this initial attraction. It’s easy for both partners to get stuck in the past.
Although this Venus trine South Node synastry aspect is a trine, it can actually be a bit difficult. The Venus person can hold the South Node person back a bit from achieving their Node North or soul’s purpose.
The North Node person will need to push through and do the self work to grow. The Venus person must be open to this grow and not be threatened by the Nodal person’s growth.
It’s possible for this relationship to work as long as the couple keeps moving and growing. Look to other aspects in the chart in order to learn more about this relationship.
Venus Sextile South Node Synastry
The Venus sextile South Node synastry aspect means that you may feel a sense of instant recognition. In a past life, you were likely lovers or romantic partners in some way.
At first, you feel like you’re falling back into something safe and comfortable. You may also get a sense of glamour from the relationship, whether this comes through social status, money, looks, mannerisms, career status, etc. You can get hooked pretty quickly because it feels so exciting.
Over time, the Venus sextile South Node synastry relationship can feel easy but a bit wrong. You may start to feel stuck or like you should be doing something differently. You notice that these glamorous things start to feel very surface-level.
This is because going backwards, while comfortable, doesn’t feel good. Your soul knows that you need to be pushing forward and learning.
If you’re able to push through and motivate each other to progress then this relationship can work.
Either person can start to feel held back; over time, both people will need more. Sometimes, the Venus person feels like they owe the South Node person due to past life interactions, while the South Node person feels that they’re stuck in the past, however neither person feels that things are quite right.
It’s important that you do emotional work separately and together. The Venus sextile South Node synastry aspect won’t force you to do this work, but you will feel much happier in the relationship if you make the choice to do it.